Seeing both perspectives shows compassion to both parties, and yet sometimes you actually want someone to be the bad guy so you can justify your dislike of them!
1 Kings 2.13-27
Reference: v.15 “As you know,” he said, “the kingdom was mine. All Israel looked to me as their king. But things changed, and the kingdom has gone to my brother; for it has come to him from the Lord.” (NIV Bible)